Not every sexual encounter has to be a meaningful, soul-bonding experience. With all due respect to your affections for your partner, quickies aren’t about ‘making love’. They’re about lust. Wonderful, heat-seeking lust, minus the frills and fuss. Highly excitable, very explosive sex in minutes. Literally. The trick, ironically, can be holding back. It’s important to realize that quickies don’t require having all-out sexual intercourse.
Granted, you wouldn’t want a sex diet consisting of nothing but ‘wham, bam, thank you ma’am’. But a quickie can be a sustaining snack for your libido when you don’t have the luxury of time for a full sexual menu.
Quickies may sound like the type of thing men would be into and women would merely tolerate. But the fact is, sometimes your woman doesn’t want the music, the flowers, the poems. She doesn’t always yearn for the tender tracing of her body. Sometimes she simply wants to be tackled when she walks through the door, and made to feel insanely desirable. The eroticism of surprise – a reminder of the full force of a lover’s needs and desires – can be a powerful motivation.
And the experts agree. A quickie can give you an erotic jolt. Impulsive, unplanned sex keeps the buzz alive. There’s no doubt that quick sex keeps you connected and feeling good.
Emotionally, the feeling of being desired, satisfying a partner and oneself enhances one’s self-esteem. Quickies encourage people to try different ways of having sex. We live most of our lives in a state of habit. We end up having sex the same way and doing the same things without really thinking about what we’re doing or why.